THE AVIARY SPIRITUAL THERAPY.

” Whats the goss??” is a phrase often used in our society.

We have a ‘need to know’ craving within us for information on what is happening in other peoples personal lives. We have been raised in this mentality – societies expectations. If you don’t know the ‘goss’ then you are of little use.

If you do always know the ‘goss’ people feed off you but then gossip about you behind your back calling you a gossip… what sense does this make??

Judgement everywhere we turn – people having an opinion on a situation they know nothing about or has nothing to do with them. Listening to a negative opinion of someone who we’ve never even met & creating a portfolio of them in our mind without ever inter-acting with this person.

What we get told is always second hand information – not accurate or truth but we seem to thrive on hearing of others misfortunes.

GOSSIP IS BLACK POISON !!

& it spreads … it is contagious… & it creates negative energy for all that participate.

When you know the reason why we gossip as a society you will most definitely want to stop & the reason is simple.

When we engage in gossip to do with another person it makes us feel better about ourselves.

We do not have a positive opinion about ourselves so to hear of others misfortune or to slander against another makes us feel better about ourselves. This is why we participate. This is why we have such a need to hear & to spread the black poison because we do not see ourselves as equal or worthy or hold ourselves in high regard.

GOSSIP CAN RUIN PEOPLES LIVES !!

How vile is it that we can create an opinion of another human without even meeting them on the word of someone else.

Have you ever had this done to you ??

I have … I remember starting a job in a hair salon in my local town. There was a team of 8 of us… 7 women – 1 man. At first the girls were all reluctant to talk to me, keeping their distance. Then after a week they started to open up a little & warm up to me. I got on well with them all.

Then about 1 month after I started 1 of the girls invited me on a night out. She actually said to me –

” I was weary of you at first because of gossip id heard but you’re actually alright.”

It turns out that they had heard an opinion of me when I was due to start in their salon.The opinion had come from another girl that didn’t really know me either & because of that black poison they had all decided to keep their distance.

Now luckily I have always been quite a strong character & this type of behaviour wasn’t new to me but i decided to be myself & we all soon became close friends & had a great working relationship.

BUT if I wasn’t a strong character & wasn’t confident in who I was, starting a new job with a team full of women who weren’t very welcoming to start off with would have been very daunting. That situation could have led to me feeling paranoid – anxious & really miserable every day going into work. All because a person who again didn’t really know me had given a negative opinion of me before I’d even had a chance to introduce myself.

The point I would like to make is … WE DON’T NEED TO KNOW about other peoples lives.

It is not relevant to you & your life in any way. It does not fill your cup. It does not help you learn or grow quite simply the opposite. It is judgemental & to judge is to be judged.

When we judge another we are judging ourselves first & foremost.

When we look at a brother or sister in any situation & have an opinion of them we are judging.

So many lies are spread through gossip. What is the point to your human experience on this earth in absorbing lies & false information??

BE DIFFERENT !!

Nobody trusts a gossip. Nobody likes a gossip. Because you never know whether the second you leave that person is then talking about you.

GOD CREATED THE WORD 1ST !! BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD !!

Only speak TRUTH. Words hold energy – they can cause harm & destruction.

Yes – you are entitled to your opinion of course but only when a situation arises at your door. You do not need to have an opinion on anything you’re not involved with.

This world needs to change & the only way that change will come is if we each individually hold our hands up & look in the mirror at ourselves.

Pointing the finger needs to STOP !!

Play your part in the change you want to see in the world by participating in the change & walking away when black poison is spreading. Have no part in it & I guarantee your love for yourself will grow & your strength of character will shine bright.

Lead by the example & don’t get pulled in. It is hard to stand for TRUTH but when you do you will feel powerful & full of light.

Love is the answer to this worlds many problems … not hate – or anger or lies or judgement, critiscism or EGO… We have centuries of these.

LOVE ❤ ONE ANOTHER

For all of you who have read this – thank you, for your time & commitment in trying to make the world a better place x

All my love –

Samantha X